Ictinike Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 Well, in the past week, life has changed for me. I don't know if better or for worse. Last, Thursday, I saw an old friend of mine (Female) who I hadn't seen in, a long time. I was so happy! Immediately we began dialogue and all that fun stuff. By the end of the day she was my girlfriend. :-) That Fri/Sat/Sun we both worked days in oppositing, so we didn't see each other except at (high) school on Friday. Monday, I saw her at school again, happy as hell! :-) She had a doctors appointment to go to, so we couldn't do anything again. Now, today, she wasn't at school, so I grew concerned, talked to a few of her friends. Found out she was in the hospital (They were jsut finding out too) so I grew very concerned! A quick call revealed her cellphone dead (Bad sign) so I grabbed one of the school phones and tricked it into phoning the Hospital I assumed she was at. I found out she was in the Emergency room at the Hostpital! :-( Anyways, I couldn't talk to her or visit her (I'm not family) so I just had to wait. I finally got the OK to talk to her on the phone at 4:45, 15 minutes before I had work, and managed to find out she was "ok". She had to sleep more, so I asked her if I could phone her when I was on break at work. It was a "Yes" :-) Further conversation tonight revealed she is in the hospital, will be ther for at least 2 days, maybe more, may get transferred to another, and I'm worried as HELL. I'm doing my best to see her tommorow, bring her flowers and check on her. See if she really is ok. I can't wait. So, here I am, nervous, my heart aches with concern,, I'm tired, I'm releived she's not dead, I'm sad she's in the hospital, and I'm depressed because I cannot do more then comfort her. Anything you have to say would be greatly appreciated. But please, I ask not to be flamed, I'm to emotionally distraught right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tops Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 Rough situation, I really hope she gets better quickly. That said, my experience with my girlfriend is that you really don't need to go over the top to let her know that you care about her. If you want, you can grab some flowers or something (the trick is two roses, no more no less) and a little get well note with a kiss and a hug. Most of all, just be there for her, but keep yourself calm and under control. No need to call her phone ten times a day, etc. Just be someone to talk to when she needs you, and tell her you care about her and that you appreciate her. That's really about all you can and should do in my opinion. Again, best wishes to her, you, and your possible future with her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siddharth Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 Well don't worry, she'll be perfectly fine. First of all, if you can, then go and visit her. Take two roses, and a get well soon card as gburnham said. Just be with her and tell her how much you love her and how much you care. It will definitely make her feel better. Help her when she needs you and don't be too worried all day. Trust me, she'll be fine. Give her what she needs and that's love and care. Hope she gets well soon. Regards, SiD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted April 18, 2007 Author Share Posted April 18, 2007 Thank you both. :-) I was planning to do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted April 19, 2007 Author Share Posted April 19, 2007 Saw her today. :-) She is ok. :-) I spent 2.5 hours with her because the nurses kicked me out (visiting time over) So releived. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saber Super Posted April 20, 2007 Share Posted April 20, 2007 Great for you Good thing it ended well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted April 20, 2007 Author Share Posted April 20, 2007 Update: She'll be at hospital until next week, at least. :'( I don't know what's up because she's to upset about something, it feels like my hearts being stomped on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted April 29, 2007 Author Share Posted April 29, 2007 HAHAHAH So Happy omg. She gets out TUESDAY!!! :_) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ramm Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 What exactly happened to her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted May 2, 2007 Author Share Posted May 2, 2007 Agh, 2 weeks more, she has to go to some therapy things. Ramm, she's got some issues to deal with, a disorder. Nothing time and a little love from me can't fix. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ramm Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 Well at least she is ok, ey? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted May 2, 2007 Author Share Posted May 2, 2007 She's not ok yet, but she will be. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
branzo Posted May 15, 2007 Share Posted May 15, 2007 As you previously said Ictinike, Your love for her will fix everything! keep us up2date! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted May 15, 2007 Author Share Posted May 15, 2007 She got out of the hospital yesterday, was dicharged on her 29th day. But she's probably going back in today because she can't cope. IT makes my heart ache that she has to go through this, I've discovered that I love her. I'll be there for her, as long, and as hard as it takes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted May 17, 2007 Author Share Posted May 17, 2007 And she's outa the hospital. :-) Currently undergoind "Outpatient" procedures. Yay :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OryHara Posted May 20, 2007 Share Posted May 20, 2007 It sounds like you are obsessed. Get over it. The chances of you marrying her are probably slim to none. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cringemaster Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 It sounds like you are obsessed. Get over it. The chances of you marrying her are probably slim to none. ^^^ Assh0le... EDIT: That was blatantly uncaring, you are not the 25 year old you say you are. Ictinike, do what your heart tells you to do. If you love her as you say you do, tell her. Im sure that if you are there for her to help her fight whatever is ailing her, she'll love you back the same way. -nick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OryHara Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 ^^^ Assh0le... EDIT: That was blatantly uncaring, you are not the 25 year old you say you are. Ictinike, do what your heart tells you to do. If you love her as you say you do, tell her. Im sure that if you are there for her to help her fight whatever is ailing her, she'll love you back the same way. -nick Nice come back. Got another? I want to see how many you can produce. Get real. Just another obsessed little boy. Grow up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killbot1000 Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 Nice come back. Got another? I want to see how many you can produce.Get real. Just another obsessed little boy. Grow up. It seems as if you are the one that needs to grow up, your ranting is making your credibility fall like a rock...To sway people you need to be calm and collected, not initiating in name calling and being very very angry for no good reason it seems... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeDroidGenesis7007 Posted May 22, 2007 Share Posted May 22, 2007 But you also need to have passion to sway the thoughts of others!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ictinike Posted May 22, 2007 Author Share Posted May 22, 2007 Nice come back. Got another? I want to see how many you can produce.Get real. Just another obsessed little boy. Grow up. Or not. Haha. I've decided not to waste any further time reading your useless {censored}. Enjoy life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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