Yami Bakura Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 People don't come over to my house a lot, I am alone a lot, I don't go to malls to hang out with friends, I don't watch a lot of TV and I don't have a lot of parties. All I do is spend a lot of time on my MacBook, go to school and go to church. That's pretty much it. Any advice on what to change or do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R2k. Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 do some art find a girl get some weekend job ~R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yami Bakura Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 1. I am not good at art. 2. I don't have a girlfriend yet. Any good advice on what to say to the girl? 3. I go fishing sometimes on the weekends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mifki Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Im alone also, i like to blame other things and make excuses i.e: im too busy / im too tired. But in the end its just me, and my un-willingness to go out and change things that im not happy about in my life. So i say, burn your computer, and go spend time outside, even if its just a walk to the mall or the shopping part of town, who knows you might end up meeting someone and then your social life snowballs from there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R2k. Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Any good advice on what to say to the girl? when you see some good-lookin girl,stop her and ask : " What time is it ? " and when she tells you,you say : " it`s the right time to we meet " - something like that. sorry about bad english and if was confusing,i tried to translate that "tutorial" from serbian .... ~R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soündless Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 i learned to skate and i started doin graffiti, try it. it get you out of the house and you meet alot of crack heads Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bxsci(macuser) Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 skating does help a lot - in fact i was dumped yesterday and was actually happy about it because as i rode my skateboard down my street a crowd of 10 girls started creaming over me. So yah, follow these steps 1. buy a skateboard (not a kryptonics or world industries kiddie board!) 2. practice practice practice 3. buy clothing to advertise you are a skater (skateboard shoes, element/circa/darkstar/whatever clothing - i personally go with a black element sweatshirt, green element windbreaker combo - but dont steal that thats mine.) 4. take your skateboard everywhere with you 5. ask every pretty girl you see for her number and start hanging out with them or what ever - one of them is bound to {censored} you eventually Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Numberzz Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Go to any dance you can. A lotta freaking going around there. Yeah, and skateboarding does help a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandro17 Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Go out a lot, to places where people meet (pubs, clubs, it depends on your country, here people meet a lot in open places). I had also been very lonely since I came back to this small, backward town in Italy. However a short time ago I went back to a place where I used to go in the past. It used to be a place for nerds, thus quite boring. I was very surprised how it has changed. Computers are still important, but aren't used just to compile Gentoo any longer. People play online games, talk, joke, share a meal, even play football. The place is bursting with young people of all ages. What do I mean? Try and find a place where you can meet people with interests similar to yours, that is the advice a wise, Dutch friend of mine used to give me. Also see if you can find an older, wise person who can help you in gaining self-confidence. A sort of counsellor without necessarily being one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
----------- Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 It sounds like you need to get out more often. If you are involved with your church maybe join a youth group or something. But I guess you need to get involved with things that interest you so you can find someone friends that have things in common with you. Being lonely sucks...Im mostly a loner. I have a few friends and Im okay with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
postaldave Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 1. have more parties: you don't have to have big parties, just have some friends over for some food and maybe some games. the more you invite people over the more you will get invited over to others. 2.become useful: if you can fix they will call. 3.get a hobby: find people that like that same hobby. 4.do not gossip or {censored} and wine about stuff: nobody like to be talked about or be around negative people. 5.stay off your computer: your internet friends are not real. i'm big into motorcycles and i have found several friends FROM the internet not ON the internet. how to get a girfriend: 1. TALK TO THEM! and I mean every single one you find. do not find one girl and stalk her. talk to them all and the right one(s) will find you. finally just be a good friend, the world needs more of them. People don't come over to my house a lot, I am alone a lot, I don't go to malls to hang out with friends, I don't watch a lot of TV and I don't have a lot of parties. All I do is spend a lot of time on my MacBook, go to school and go to church. That's pretty much it. Any advice on what to change or do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killbot1000 Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Sex, drugs, and rock and roll. No Church! haha jk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yami Bakura Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 So pretty much all I do everyday after I come home from school is do my homework, eat a snack or two, spend a long time on my MacBook, take a shower and go to bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soündless Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 ^ thats my life (-the jk) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bwhsh8r Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 uhmmm i started doing drugs and getting friends.... now i party / get drunk high like erryday.... basically just start talking to people and {censored} and yeh.... idk just kinda happened for me also when your a sr you do what you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandro17 Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 1. have more parties: you don't have to have big parties, just have some friends over for some food and maybe some games. the more you invite people over the more you will get invited over to others. 2.become useful: if you can fix they will call. 3.get a hobby: find people that like that same hobby. 4.do not gossip or {censored} and wine about stuff: nobody like to be talked about or be around negative people. 5.stay off your computer: your internet friends are not real. i'm big into motorcycles and i have found several friends FROM the internet not ON the internet. how to get a girfriend: 1. TALK TO THEM! and I mean every single one you find. do not find one girl and stalk her. talk to them all and the right one(s) will find you. finally just be a good friend, the world needs more of them. Very good advice, postaldave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yami Bakura Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 All this time I was on my Mac and didn't have time for any girlfriend or spending time outside. I am sort of a busy Geek person. I need to have some fun in my life and not just be on the computer all night. Thanks for all of your great replies so far. I appreciate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apowerr Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 All this time I was on my Mac and didn't have time for any girlfriend or spending time outside. I am sort of a busy Geek person. I need to have some fun in my life and not just be on the computer all night. Thanks for all of your great replies so far. I appreciate it. I am very social at school, so I couldn't say that I am lonely. I played football (American) for two years, but it never really did anything for me. No 'clubs' or anything like that interested me either. So, since I didn't like sports or clubs, but I did like money: I got a job. It's done wonders, I have met all kinds of new friends (again I was never lonely, but still). This weekend I worked 12.5 hours and actually had fun with it. spend a long time on my MacBook Ok, so perhaps you're a computer enthusiast. That's fine, there's probably other enthusiasts at your school. I have a couple friends that are into PC's and we are always debating over whats the best on Newegg and such In fact this Winter we are each going to a build a new rig (another benefit of having a job is that it can fuel your hobbies) i started doing drugs and getting friends.... now i party / get drunk high like erryday.... There's another good way to meet friends, go to parties. And like everyone else has said, get a girlfriend. Oh and one last thing : Stop liking Anime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R2k. Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Oh and one last thing : Stop liking Anime yep,i just wanted to say that & you don`t need any drugs and drinks to have a good time on a party and get new friends... believe me,i know. i`m going on electro/techno parties from my 14,and i never used some of that but i get a lot of friends and girls. the most important thing is your positive energy. (sorry about bad english,i usually don`t write long posts because of that ...) ~R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soündless Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 All this time I was on my Mac and didn't have time for any girlfriend or spending time outside. I am sort of a busy Geek person. I need to have some fun in my life and not just be on the computer all night. Thanks for all of your great replies so far. I appreciate it. get a {censored}ti pc, it will break more and you will want more time away from it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FreakyMac Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 These guys know what they are doing. Listen to them ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yami Bakura Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 Any other tips on what I can do to get out of this always-on-the-computer and lonely life to spending-time-with-a-girlfriend or hanging-out-with friends life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R2k. Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 get rid of coca-cola,and other sodas.and start a healthy life. than you will have better sleep and in general you will be more satisfied.and than when you satisfied with you and your life,you will be better in social life. ~R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yami Bakura Posted October 14, 2007 Author Share Posted October 14, 2007 get rid of coca-cola,and other sodas.and start a healthy life. than you will have better sleep and in general you will be more satisfied.and than when you satisfied with you and your life,you will be better in social life.~R I don't drink Coca-Cola or any other pop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R2k. Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 ok,than eat more fruits. vitamins are good for brain work ~R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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