Bah! I'm totally new to this and I'm loving it, with a few quirks. Setup as follows
Dell Inspiron 640m or E1405
Core 2 Duo T5600
Intel 945 chipset
Dell 1390 WLAN mini-card
I've researched on the net and here, and everyone seems to have this particular wireless card working flawlessly. Under system info>airport card information, the card is recognized as "airport extreme), USA locale, firmware version is "broadcomm bcm43xx 1.0" (why is it broadcomm) and under current wireless network it says "airport is currently turned off".
Airport is not present under "Internet Connect", apple says this is probably due to improper installation of wlan card. this isn't accurate as the card works fine under winxp. I've also updated the airport software through software update, but to no avail.
As for help, all kinds is welcome. Since I'm totally new to this, there may be some totally general fix I may have had to done, equivalent to installing a driver or something, that I haven't done. Basically, don't be afraid to post something ludicrously obvious that I should have done, heh.
