Well by accident i was able to finally get my iatkos v7 dvd installed on my k8t-neo board but i dont remember the settings/install options when i first did the install is there any way to figure it out? im already booted in but i want to reinstall with more options such as the video card etc..

there is not really a way to see what was installed, you can check if there is a "vanilla kext" or "backup kext" folder in your home/main folder.by that you see which files have been modified by the distro...
i would suggest you try to install your missing video card and such with a working system. use kexthelper or osx86tools for an easy install routine of new kexts. you can even extract the missing packages from the iatkos install dvd!